Showing posts with label 4 Life. Show all posts
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Thursday, May 10, 2012

This is OUR WORLD...


"THIS IS YOUR WORLD... SHAPE IT OR SOMEONE ELSE WILL!"


TOO TRUE!!!!  One of my favorite quotes is.... "Stand for something - Or else you will Fall for Anything!" and this one goes right along with it.  The world is a place, I think we can all agree, filled with despair, hatred, sadness, disappointments, violence and pain...     But it ALSO is a place filled with Love, Compassion, Kindness, Charity, Strength and Joy.....  


To a point - it's about perception  (what you chose to see or focus on) but a lot of it has to do with ACTION!!!  Some of the strongest individuals I know of, are those who through adversity have bulldozed their way clear of the muck and got to the other side and have a real life now!   To blindly or numbly accept our circumstance is a passive and NON-ACTIVE approach to Living.... Rather than shrug our shoulders and shake our heads at the injustices and horrors of the world, wouldn't it be better to STAND UP and CHANGE things as much as we can where ever we are???



I know most of us have come to believe that there is little we can do to change the course that this world has been on for so long now.  We don't vote because what's the point when our little single choice is nothing in the grand scheme of things and the loudest voices are always the ones spoken in anger or are intended to disrupt.  But is that the truth?   There was a commercial back in the 70's or 80's for a perfume and the memorable line was... "If you want to capture someones attention - WHISPER!"  The funny thing is that IT'S TRUE!  Even all these years later, I can still remember the commercial and  even hear the actresses voice and the way she "WHISPERED" the word...  and I cannot remember a joke I heard 2 minutes ago!   Sometimes, the smallest and seemingly insignificant things can make the biggest impact - I believe this!




So, let's take this to heart -  If we look around and don't like what we see, who can we blame but ourselves, because in some small part we all have contributed to it getting to this point and if we do nothing - Nothing will ever change!!  We can start today - NOW!  This very minute!  We can start by loving ourselves and showing kindness to ALL!  Forgiving ourselves and those we have held hostage with our unforgiving hearts, our stubborn minds and harsh words!!  We can think of doing for others more often, sooner and without reluctance!  We can share a smile with someone on the street even when we are in a hurry or frustrated or sad!  We can make a point to HELP not harm everywhere we go and with all of our words and deeds.  We can be forthright, honest and gentle and be trustworthy as well as trusting!  We can be strong for others and in spirit and we can be gracious and humble as well!




There are a million ways we can DO SOMETHING on an everyday basis and it truly does start at home....  By teaching our children to value PEOPLE and honesty and kindness instead of things and status and appearance...  We can stop saving for a new car and instead save time at the end of our day for our loved ones... We can remember how much our parents sacrificed for us and loved us unconditionally and be there for them UNCONDITIONALLY without them having to ask us first...  We can let people off the hook instead of making them feel bad just to feel superior ourselves.... And we can accept that we are EXACTLY the person we were meant to be and begin to embrace all of our past and every hope for tomorrow rather than knocking ourselves down for not being who we think we should be or for what we have done in the past....  


                                                                                         
                                              


                                                        
We CAN drive out the darkness with the LIGHT of our Love and the power of our conviction!!  


Evil is only HOPELESSNESS, DOUBT and FEAR, not an immovable force that will break us down or that can withstand anything!!!  Once we realize that - We can do ANYTHING!!!  LOVE TRULY CAN CONQUER ALL!!!!   <3






Let's us do all part by being a Positive Force in the world around us!






Thursday, November 10, 2011

TODAY I Begin To Live




TODAY I begin to LIVE my Life... 
Embracing the past yet not letting it rule me,
Looking forward to tomorrow with renewed Hope,
by LIVING today with everything I have within me!

TODAY I begin to LIVE my Life...
As if there were no barriers - -
between myself and those I Love
or those I have yet to meet,
No barriers to accomplishing 
whatever I set my mind to
or to meeting any of my needs!

TODAY I begin to LIVE my Life...
Finding Joy in the little things,
Taking the time to care for myself,
And doing what I can for others!

TODAY I begin to LIVE my Life...
As if it were the last here on earth,
Without shame, guilt or regret,
Being TRUE to who I was created to be,
Finding Passion and Purpose in all that I do!

TODAY I begin to LIVE my Life...
Centered in LOVE,
Focused on GIVING,
With a THANKFUL Heart...
Remembering the Blessings of 
this Life I have been Given!
 

~ Bren4Life





Sunday, September 4, 2011

26 WAYS TO LOVE LIFE


1. Be positive. The moment you open your eyes each morning think of something positive. One positive thought leads to another. Before falling asleep each night think positive thoughts. Positive thoughts lead to a well lived life.
2. Accept yourself. Be kind to yourself and love yourself. Never make excuses for who you are. Don’t compare yourself to others. There will never be another you.
3. Be Yourself. You are unique. We live in a copy-cat materialistic world. You don’t have to look or act like a Hollywood star. Don’t change who you are in different situations. You have a right to be different, think differently and do things differently than others. You only have to be you!
4. Choose your friends wisely. Choose friends who accept and respect you. Choose friends who support you. Friends either bring you up or down. Release anyone who isn’t going in your direction.
5. Practice gratitude. It’s the fastest way to put youself in a positive emotional state. Keep your focus on what you have and more will come to you.
6. Help others. Never pass up an opportunity to help someone. Small deeds count. Big deeds count. Share with others. You can’t out give God. You will feel good about yourself and your life.
7. Apologize. Make this a habit. Tell others you are sorry. Ask what you can do to make up for your actions. Then make the changes needed in your behavior.
8. Forgive. Forgive yourself and others. Holding grudges steals your emotional and physical energy.
It’s like carrying a ball and chain around your ankle.
9. Find a hobbie. Discover what you love to do. Acting, dancing, photography or painting are all better than another television show or computer game. Step out of your comfort zone and enjoy life.
10. Live without debt. Don’t spend more than you make. Create a budget and stick with it. Money is one of the top two reasons for a divorce. Debt ruins relationships and lives.
11. Laugh often. You can determine the health of a family or workplace by the amount of laughter that takes place. It has been proven that laughter heals. Read comics, joke books and watch comedy.
12. Exercise. Stay active. Move your body. Find exercise that you love and do it regularly. Volleyball, running, baseball, swimming and tennis can be exercise and fun. Find what fits you and get going.
13. Eat healthy.Choose fresh vegtables, fruits, nuts and grains. Avoid red meat.
14. Travel. Explore different places. If you can’t afford to fly, drive. You don’t have to go far. just go. Learn how to travel on a budget and go twice as much.
15. Celebrate Mondays. Mondays are 1/7 of your life. Do something special on Mondays so they feel like Fridays. Notice the attitude you have on Friday compared to Monday. How can you make Mondays special.
16. Volunteer. This will add to your mental and emotional health. It’s a feeling money can’t buy. Do your part to make the world a better place.
17. Play. Balance life with play. Play cards. Play with children. Play outside. Play games. Play for fun. Play to improve yourself.
18. Live in the present moment. When we are anxious we are either living in the pain of the past or the fear of the future. Learn to take one moment at a time. Live in the present.
19. Respect elderly people. Spend time with them. They are worthy and wise. You will be old someday yourself.
20. Read. You can learn something new everyday. Never stop learning. Never stop growing.
21. Breathe. Learn to breathe properly. Breathe deeply and often. It will decrease your tension and anxiety.
22. Be patient. Learn to wait patiently. We spend between 3-5 years of our life waiting in line. Learn to be patient with others. We don’t all grow at the same pace. Learn to be paitent with your children, it is a wonderful gift to give them.
23. Learn to deal with your emotions. It’s a scientific fact that the center for emotional control is not in someone else’s behavior it’s in your brain.
You can talk with a friend, journal or exercise, these are a few methods for dealing with your emotions. Anger covers up pain, pain covers fear. Recognize your feelings, emotions and know how to remain calm in chaos.
24. Take the high road. Know what your values are and live by them. If  a cashier gave you an extra five dollars back in change would you give it back?
25. Simplify. List the areas of your life that need to be simplified. Choose one area of your life and begin. Keep it simple.
26. Love. Learn how to express your love to others. Speak loving words and take loving action. Decide to contribute love to the world.

Monday, August 8, 2011

LIFE LESSONS 101

LIFE LESSONS 101        ♥•*´¨♥¸.• ♥ ´*.*♥¸.•

 
  • I've learned that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides to every story.

  • I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person that I want to be.

  • I've learned that you control your attitude or it controls you.

  • I've learned that maturity has more to do with the types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.

  • I've learned that quantity is not as important as quality when it comes to friends.

  • I've learned that it isn't enough to be forgiven by others, sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

  • I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken, the world will not stop for your grief. 

  • I've learned that background and circumstances might have influenced who you are, but we are responsible for who we've become. 

  • I've learned that you can't make someone love you, all you can do is be someone who can be loved. 

  • I've learned that no matter how old or wise you think you are, life never stops teaching.



Saturday, January 29, 2011

The Gods of the Copybook Headings

"The Gods of the Copybook Headings
vs.
The Gods of the Marketplace"

OR
Spiritual (Morality)  vs.  Carnal (Hedonism)

"Heaven and earth shall pass away, but my words shall not pass away"
Matthew 24:35,  Mark 13:31,  Luke 21:33 ~
(KJV)


Once again, Glenn Beck has done it..!!.  No matter what your personal opinion or your political views are, you have to admit, this very controversial man gets people talking and THINKING!!!  I am not afraid to say, Glenn Beck "Inspires Me" on a daily basis!!  And he does it simply by provoking thought... and then saying, "Do NOT take my word for it! Go check it out for yourself!!"  Who does that???   Honestly, I can think of only two people in the public eye that do - Glenn Beck and Rush Limbaugh!   So, before I know it, I find myself doing just that.  Checking things out for myself!  Usually, after hours of scouring the Internet, reading, researching...  I come to the same or similar conclusions as what has been presented by Beck and the really amazing thing is that he does not take credit, want praise or any reward either.  Instead he just suggests that we "Look into ourselves" and find our conviction, our Faith, our resolve, our strength... to "Love" one another... and to "Give" of ourselves to others... which is the true definition of Love anyway!  He proclaims such controversial and politically-biased things, such as: "FAITH", "HOPE" and "CHARITY"!  And THIS is why I feel INSPIRED and actually HOPEFUL again for the first time in a very long time!!!!


This time, all he did was read a poem!  It was an impassioned rendering, spoken with all the drama and intensity of a Shakespearean actor, but just a poem nonetheless.  A poem written in 1919, by a 53 year old British man (born in India) who had just recently lost his son in World War I and a daughter a few years earlier.  Some say this man was broken and had begun to question, if not lose, his faith.  He felt that the virtue had gone out of the classes which he idealized, the young people hedonistic and indifferent.  Imperialism, as he saw it, was a sort of forcible evangelizing.  This was during a time when his home, England, which had been strong and revered by the world, was now beaten, drained and nearly broken. He claimed no political affiliation, but identified with the ruling power, and was a Conservative.  Eventually though, he "sold out" to the British Ruling Class because he saw that they were not what he imagined them to be.  Very likely he was disillusioned by all these things and could find no comfort in either his country, politics or his religion.


This man was none other than, the (first) English Nobel Prize winner, world traveler, Free-Mason, Rudyard Kipling, a renowned writer of prose, poetry and stories. Probably known best as the writer of, "The Jungle Book",  "Gunga Din", "If", and "The Road to Mandalay", Kipling was once called by George Orwell, "the prophet" of  British Imperialism while in it's expansionist phase and he was the unofficial historian of the (mercenary) British Army.  His mainstream writing career was short lived however, as he quickly became "unfashionable" as a writer.  Some (incorrectly) thought he was fascist, and many did not understand his writings and often misinterpreted or misrepresented him.  Although, he was generally regarded as callous, course and pessimistic, one cannot fail to be impressed with his genius, his insight, and almost prophetic view, of the world as it was then, as well as how things are today.



There are many who believe this currently popular poem entitled, "THE GODS OF THE COPYBOOK HEADING" depicts the differences between communism and capitalism, and it would seem that given the events of day when it was written by Kipling, that very well could be true.  However, beyond that, and more importantly in my mind, is the possibility that he was warning people of the perils of "losing faith", not so much in regards to religion necessarily, but relating to what I choose to call a "HIGHER SPIRITUAL TRUTH"!  He was giving a "Wake Up Call" of sort, especially to those who, because of the "Fabian Socialism" (progressive) movement and the like, had "lost their morality"!  Was it was a call to the world's inhabitants to "fix reason and logic firmly in it's seat" and to "stand for something, or else we will fall for anything"??   


Whether you embrace traditional Christian beliefs as represented in The Holy Bible or you believe in a "God" known by another name or maybe even believe in a kind of spirituality and respect for life such as our Native Americans do --  All these "practices" have a basic Moral foundation, Respect for Life, belief that there is a Higher Purpose for us all, as well as a Greater or Higher Being or Creator who made us, and a basic code that we need to follow or live our life according to, or there will be natural, cosmic repercussions if we don't!  Personally, I think this issue or dilemma is what Mr. Kipling was addressing in his poem.  It is that age-old and well known battle, between the Spiritual and the Carnal Being inside each of us, that we deal with on an every day basis in every aspect of our lives, including but not limited to politics, religion, morality, etc.  We were created in part, To Worship, to follow a path of some sort - And if not "God", then something, some ideology or someone else!!!   (The Angel on one shoulder and the Devil on the other!)




Clearly, Mr. Kipling is telling us that although the lure of the "Carnal" (hedonistic) life may be strong and appears to be so bright, shiny and perfect - In the end, it always will fail and if we allow ourselves to become complacent and to be fooled and we follow that path that we imagine will lead us to that "pot of gold", We Will Fall!!  Because, you see, "All That Glitters is NOT Gold"!!   Though the "Spiritual" (enlightened) path, the "road less traveled" or the "straight and narrow" may oftentimes seem quite boring and monotonous and lack luster comparatively, I believe, in the end, it will be evident that it was the road we were seeking all along!  

To have Conviction, To be True to ourselves, To do what we know is Right, To Love One Another and practice "No Harm To Others" and "Faith, Hope and Charity"... These are the truisms that will enable us to withstand anything that may come against us, IF we truly LIVE them!!  Plain and simply, only the TRUTH can and will stand in the end!!


But, this is just my opinion.  Please read "The Gods of the Copybook Heading" poem for yourself and then let me know what your thoughts and opinions are, I am interested!!!   Here it is...   Thanks!     ~ Bren ~






The Poem 

The Gods of the Copybook Headings

AS I PASS through my incarnations in every age and race,
I make my proper prostrations to the Gods of the Market Place.
Peering through reverent fingers I watch them flourish and fall,
And the Gods of the Copybook Headings, I notice, outlast them all.

We were living in trees when they met us. They showed us each in turn
That Water would certainly wet us, as Fire would certainly burn:
But we found them lacking in Uplift, Vision and Breadth of Mind,
So we left them to teach the Gorillas while we followed the March of Mankind.

We moved as the Spirit listed. They never altered their pace,
Being neither cloud nor wind-borne like the Gods of the Market Place,
But they always caught up with our progress, and presently word would come
That a tribe had been wiped off its ice field, or the lights had gone out in Rome.

With the Hopes that our World is built on they were utterly out of touch,
They denied that the Moon was Stilton; they denied she was even Dutch;
They denied that Wishes were Horses; they denied that a Pig had Wings;
So we worshipped the Gods of the Market Who promised these beautiful things.

When the Cambrian measures were forming, They promised perpetual peace.
They swore, if we gave them our weapons, that the wars of the tribes would cease.
But when we disarmed They sold us and delivered us bound to our foe,
And the Gods of the Copybook Headings said: "Stick to the Devil you know."

On the first Feminian Sandstones we were promised the Fuller Life
(Which started by loving our neighbour and ended by loving his wife)
Till our women had no more children and the men lost reason and faith,
And the Gods of the Copybook Headings said: "The Wages of Sin is Death."

In the Carboniferous Epoch we were promised abundance for all,
By robbing selected Peter to pay for collective Paul;
But, though we had plenty of money, there was nothing our money could buy,
And the Gods of the Copybook Headings said: "If you don't work you die."

Then the Gods of the Market tumbled, and their smooth-tongued wizards withdrew
And the hearts of the meanest were humbled and began to believe it was true
That All is not Gold that Glitters, and Two and Two make Four
And the Gods of the Copybook Headings limped up to explain it once more.

As it will be in the future, it was at the birth of Man
There are only four things certain since Social Progress began.
That the Dog returns to his Vomit and the Sow returns to her Mire,
And the burnt Fool's bandaged finger goes wobbling back to the Fire;

And that after this is accomplished, and the brave new world begins
When all men are paid for existing and no man must pay for his sins,
As surely as Water will wet us, as surely as Fire will burn,
The Gods of the Copybook Headings with terror and slaughter return!


~ Rudyard Kipling ~
October 1919
(First published in the Sunday Pictorial, October 26, 1919)














"Those who don't stand for something, Fall for anything!"  

~Alexander Hamilton~ 



"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at in times of challenge and controversy..."

~Martin Luther King Jr.~







Gods of the Copybook Headings Vocabulary 

The poem is easier to analyze when you know what the terms mean that he uses and understand the way they relate to the time in which it was written and what events were taking place at that time



  • Copybook headings - Children in the schoolroom were instructed to use copybooks to practice their handwriting. At the top, there would be a perfect example of how to print something. On the printed lines below, the student would copy (replicate) the handwriting on the rest of the page as exact as possible
  • Stilton - Stilton is a British kind of cheese
  • Dutch - the Dutch were known for their cheese making
  • The Cambrian Measures - Are the part of the ocean that divides Britain from the rest of Europe
  • Feminian Sandstones - Stone used to originally build Pagan temples and later, Medieval churches 
  • The Carboniferous Epoch - Commonly refers to period of time when mountain ranges were formed



Reference Links:

Background on Kipling by John Derbyshire
Rudyard Kipling's The Gods of the Copybook Headings
Wolf Pangloss Kipling -The Gods of the Copybook Headings
The Life and Works of Rudyard Kipling
The Gods Of The Copybook Headings Analysis & Comments
Kipling on Wikipedia
The Gods of the Copybook Headings on Wikisource
"Rudyard Kipling" by George Orwell in 1942


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